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Understanding Sexsomnia

Everyone has heard of the sleepwalker, the sleep eater and the sleep talker. However, there is another sleep disorder that people are less likely to discuss: sexsomnia.

What is Sexsomnia?

Sexsomnia, also called sex sleep, was first identified in 1996 and is a classified sleep disorder characterized as a non-rapid-eye-movement (N-REM) parasomnia. (A parasomnia is a disorder characterized by partial arousals during sleep or during transitions between wake and sleep.)

People who experience sexsomnia engage in sex while sleeping, though they have no memory of their actions once they wake up. The intensity of this sleep sex varies, with some sexsomnia victims merely moaning and groping, and others engaging in sexual activity either with themselves or with another person in the bed. On the extreme end of the scale are those who become violent and dangerous while performing sexual acts.

Specific causes of the disorder are unknown, but some scientists believe that there is a genetic component involved with sexsomnia. Research also suggests that sleep sex is caused by a genuine sleep disorder combined with other emotional problems.

Who Suffers from Sexsomnia?

Researchers believe that sexsomnia affects between one-tenth to one percent of the population, although this estimate might not be accurate, since so many people are too ashamed to seek help. At the present time, it is believed that mostly adult men suffer from the disorder. (Two-thirds of reported cases are males.)

Effects of Sexsomnia

It is important to seek medical help for this condition, as a sufferer may experience many negative emotions, including:
  • anger
  • confusion
  • denial
  • fear
  • frustration
  • guilt
  • repulsion
  • shame.
These negative emotions often lead to tremendous stress.

Clearly, relationships are put to the test when couples have to deal with this awkward and sometimes dangerous problem. Also, many sexsomnia sufferers are concerned about legal issues, as sexual advances occurring during sleep can be unwanted and violent.

Sexsomnia Treatment

Treatment for sexsomnia may combine medication, therapy and lifestyle changes. Triggers, such as stress and alcohol, should be avoided. Lifestyle changes, to help reduce stress and anxiety, may also be incorporated into a personal program to best fit an individual's specific needs. Additionally, doctors may prescribe the drug clonazepam, which has been effective for some individuals suffering from this parasomnia.

Sexsomnia is a chronic condition, and, therefore, treatment is essential. Seeking help can increase awareness and understanding and can help both individuals and couples deal with this disorder in a constructive and understanding way.

Resources

4 Men's Health (2005). Sleep Sex. Retrieved January 27, 2007, from the 4 Men’s Health Web site: http://www.4-men.org/sleep
/sex.html.

Med Page Today (2007). Smith. Sex While Sleeping is Real, and May Be No Joke. Retrieved January 27, 2007, from the Med Page Today Web site: http://www.medpagetoday.com/Neurology/
APSS/tb/3568.

Safer Sex Blog (n.d.). Sexsomnia. Retrieved January 27, 2007, from the Safer Sex Blog Web site: http://www.safersexblog
.com/19/article/health/sexsomnia-think-youre-not-getting-any-
dont-be-so-sure.

MSNBC (n.d.). Sexsomniacs Puzzle Medical Researchers. Retrieved January 27, 2007, from the MSNBC Web site: http://www.msnbc.
msn.com/id/15427247/.
 
 
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9 Comments(s)
Posted by Martin Rowse
I am also a suffer with the condition and have found mine is very linked to stress, before I descovered it was actaully a condition one or two incidnets had occured when I had either been staying with or had females stayign with me, it caused some problems in the short term but now I have learned to gently warn people about it and have been careful whenever possible and my current g/f acyually likes it! but just amessage to all of you out there were not all alone but how you approach the problem is the most imprtant thing, I even try to make a joke out of it to make people more cofortable.
Posted by RIK
I suffer with "sexsomnia" and my partner is very understanding about it, when i start to sleep sex she manages to wake me and i stop, but i do feel guilty for her lack of sleep as some nights it can happen 4/5 times.
Posted by boo
doe anyone have a comment of the feelings of the person being RAPED? that's what it is. Trut me, I'm just learning about it and found out my son-in-law has rapped her 3 times and doesn't remember. Is this just an excuse? Now she hates him, hates having sex with him and getting ready to go thru a divorce after only 2 years and a baby. This sucks
Posted by Sophie
Um, I'm not real familiar to this blogging stuff, but i think "Anonymous" has a negative attitude. What's with the anger? Anyway, i heard of this "condition" on tv and thought i would look up this sexomnia thing. For obvious reasons... Veerrrrryyyy interesting. I think blogs should be more educational and offering people help and sharing positive ideas. Don't you?
Posted by Anonymous
Sure enough sleepsex is nothing to freak out about. I have had partners who even liked that, because they felt flattered that i jumped them while asleep. Others found it to be freaky until i explained... You people always want to treat everything you have develeoped a mediaction for. This is the human spectrum and there is absolutely no need to treat everything that is simply not ordinary. NOT SICK, just diffrent.

It is only a worth treating if suffered from it, not because you said so!
Posted by Wolves
I personally don't have sexsomnia, but doing research for a paper I'm writing. And I have to say, this article fairly informational to me.

I'm commenting because I find it amusing that you think this article is referring to ALL people who have Sexsomnia. The article CLEARLY states that SOMETIMES things can get dangerous. Which is true. And based on other websites I've looked at, this article appears to be accurate. There is nothing wrong with letting it be known that a dangerous situation COULD occur. That does NOT necessarily mean that it will...

On top of that, no said you HAD to get treated for it. It just implies that, because dangerous could happen, maybe a person should get treatment so as not to cause harm to anyone or themselves.

If you and your partner like it, then there is no problem or need to be treated. If the opposite is true, then maybe a person might want to think about it.

And just because a person has a disorder - of any kind - doesn't mean they SUFFER from it.
Posted by Anonymous
I have to wonder if people like you that write these articles about people like me, have any idea what you are even talking about. Sure there are brutal stories of people having sexsomnia and aggressively going after their partner. But WE arent all like this. Please think about that the next time you plan on writing about something you obviously know nothing about.

Oh and just for stats sake, I am a female not a male.
Posted by emma
This is not a brutal storie

B`cos we enjoy it ld like to say that me and my hubby of 11 years do have sleep sex, it started about 2 years ago, Yes he always makes the frist move but i enjoy it,, we both always wake up in the middle of it and he is never violent...
So this is not a brutal storie b`cos we enjoy it
Posted by glynn
Didn't know that this existed until my wife saw a programme on tv and shouted me into the room to point it out. I suffer from narcolepsy and have also woken up halfway through making love to my wife. She explained to me that i make the 1st move and my memory kicks in half way through when i wake up. She says that i have been gentle and apart from rousing her from her sleep, she enjoys it. Ironically enough the 1st i know about it is halfway through when i wake up and as i have no memory of instigating, have some times felt not in the mood and have carried on when aware so as not to dissappoint.


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